PORSHA WILLIAMS says she “finally figured out dating at 44” just a month after she revealed she was dating a woman

Monday, November 17, 2025 - Real Housewives of Atlanta star, Porsha Williams, has said she finally understands dating at the age of 44.

She spoke during a panel session at BravoCon 2025 in Las Vegas, where a fan in her 30s asked for dating advice.

Williams explained that it took her years to understand herself and what she wants.

She said she used to fall quickly because she’s a “hopeless romantic,” adding that she now knows finding the right person requires doing things differently.

The reality star advised the fan to “date knowing who you are,” and to leave immediately when she sees red flags.

Williams also said she had to wait till 44 to “figure it out,” urging women not to put pressure on themselves, Daily Mail reported.

During the same event, she confirmed she’s dating again but isn’t in a relationship yet. She said she’s currently focused on one person and seeing where it leads.

Williams recently revealed at CultureCon in New York that she’s seeing both a man and a woman, explaining that she’s adjusting to dating people who don’t “love bomb” her.

She added that she’s learning to open up slowly, accept honest feedback, and avoid expecting elaborate gestures.

Porsha was previously married to Simon Guobadia. Their divorce was finalized in June 2025.